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sweetdoll-1526
sweetdoll-1526
I'm here for open-minded, no-strings fun with a strong emotional and physical spark. I'm kink-friendly, into exploring desires, and believe great chemistry starts with honesty and mutual respect. Not looking for forever-just deep connections, wild nights, and safe, consensual play. If you're into that, let's talk and see what trouble we can get into
Female (53) Columbus, Ohio
Ellie0-0
Ellie0-0
Hi hi! I'm new to all this so bare with me ^•^. I'm a submissive brat. I love being put in my place and told what to do, ect. CNC is hot and so is manhandling. Into *** and degrading, but also praise. Would love a men or women to take control of my life like, orgasm denial, diet, activities, what I wear, ect. I am a virgin as well so be warned I'm THAT new to all this.
Female (21) Columbus, Ohio
Prettypuppy69
Prettypuppy69
I'm back!! Hi for everyone who has never chatted with me keep reading. I am looking for a Dom. I'm not going to do something I don't want to do no matter how much you try to tell me to do it. I'm a brat to most but if you treat me right I'll be the easiest and most obedient toy you'll ever play with. Please don't accept the session and expect to put a collar on me or even play with my collar. My collar is for worthy doms only. I truly hope you understand. If you're pushy or demanding you will be treating accordingly.
Female (22) Columbus, Ohio
Misha4269
Misha4269
I’m newly divorced and looking to meet women who want to teach me all the finer points of making women cum and play with me
Female (50) Columbus, Ohio
Chloe-3548
Chloe-3548
# Hey I'm a serious lady....5’10 Lbs ,age 40 and I'm up at 36pm and i love 92(cm) ice cream from avenue '9'. Can’t respond viewers numbers here, you are brilliant enough. Join ashh # Take a very good look at my picture if you find me interesting and win my heart. I am seeking a honest and caring man in my life. I will make you the happiest on this earthbold text
Female (45) Columbus, Ohio
L1ttl3mama
L1ttl3mama
I'm not here for a long time, just a good time. Looking for someone to flirt with and maybe some cyber fun. Not looking for a relationship! Doms please apply, im very submissive.
Female (44) Columbus, Ohio
honey-9715
honey-9715
I’m a sub at heart (although i’m a switch), but you must gain my trust, slowly. after all, isn’t that what BDSM is all about? not looking to jump into anything sexual right off the bat. do not send explicit content unless I ask, and DO NOT push my boundaries. outside of kink, i am a human being first, not a sex object. ❗️NO MAGA❗️ also maybe kinda interested in a 3some?? ((:🙈 if ur DDF.
Female (24) Columbus, Ohio
Tracey-5699
Tracey-5699
I am full of energy and love! My dream is to find love! Love does not know ages, right? I am in the perfect age to love and to concentrate on my man. I am experienced enough to make a mane happy. I am calm, wise and balanced. I like harmony in everything. I believe in marriage and I am sure I will be a loyal and loving wife!
Female (43) Columbus, Ohio
Barbkink
Barbkink
I'm a total dominant and a sweet mummy, i know how to take good care of my Sub slaves, i need a loyal and honest pet, i have alot to explore with you and i promise it wont be boring.
Female (42) Columbus, Ohio
BabyGamerGirl898
BabyGamerGirl898
Hiya all! Lvl 35. I love video/board/card games, space, dinosaurs, drawing/coloring, cats (really all ***s), building things, watching cartoons (adult and kids), and going on adventures. Recently have gotten into DND and would love to find someone to help me learn! Im happily married. Im poly. Always open to new possibilities. Especially with an abdl Daddy or Mommy. If youd like to know more about me feel free to msg me. Always open to making like minded friends! **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to find an individual that I connect with that is into abdl.
Female (36) Columbus, Ohio
neversaynever
neversaynever
I'm one of millions of people who are lonely. I do not lose hope to meet a man whom I can take under his arm and feel protection. The ability to protect in a man is the most important thing for me. And for a man I myself will become a reliable rear. I stand on my feet quite confidently. I have a creative fascinating work, which develops and gives a sense of realization. If you, as well as I need not just contact, and closeness with kinship of souls and home comfort, and in the relationship reigns mutual understanding and careful attitude, then make a step towards me and write about your desire.
Female (43) Columbus, Ohio
Goodgirl-2271
Goodgirl-2271
Well, I’m a fun-loving, down-to-earth woman who believes in living life with purpose, passion, and a little bit of laughter every day. I love staying active, whether it’s working out, going for a ride, cooking up something delicious on the grill, or just relaxing outside with my cat
Female (42) Columbus, Ohio
littlewhimsy888
l*************8
Hiii mister!!! I am a little AND a slave! :3 Some manner of experimental woodsy transcendentalist, looking for a daddy to own me. All about DDLG, CNC, and TPE. I love high protocol and domestic servitude ❤️ and I love big personalities who live with enthusiasm!!! Gimme dat zest 4 life! I love all things mystical and magical and envelope pushing! I'm very "let me worship at your feet" as well as "can you please tuck me in tonight daddy?" I'm a little ball of energy and I would love to have a man to bother. (I mean... shower with affection) I like feeling small and protected and like a prey ***. I'm @gattina_ on Fetlife if you'd like to see more of me :-)) I'm hsv2 + just so you know
Female (27) Columbus, Ohio
Katie465
K******5
Some things I'm into are ✨Impact play ✨Being submissive ✨Orgasm Denial (giving and receiving) And with time and exploration hopefully the list will grow. Feel free to message me if anything in here seems interesting to you, l'd love to get to know more likeminded people. Older men are my weakness 🙂‍↕️
Female (24) Columbus, Ohio
travellearnexplore
t****************e
I am looking for open minded people, a judgement free zone. Also, I’m married and am willing to talk online only, no meet ups.
Female (35) Columbus, Ohio
Adventurenut
A**********t
Playful and constant sexual appetite looking for new experiences. Currently looking for a female to join my male friend and I in a threesome but open to other suggestions. Tell me what to do...I like it! Manhandle me but also be open to when I wanna jump on top and have my way.
Female (39) Columbus, Ohio
Tinypussy4br33ding
T****************g
Hmm well what is there to know about me, I'm 26 and one of my biggest fantasy is to be bred, and another big one is to be that I'm a bit more shy to openly talk about because people can be a bit. TOO sensitive, anyways it's too be "r@ped". 🤫Just once I would love to have my pussy taken by *** and by a complete stranger. See me walking down the street, if I'm wearing a dress I'm definitely not wearing panties, *** me into a dark alley, and fuck me until you've left all of your cum inside of me.🤐😶 Another turn on is if you can cum big loads, I love the way cum feels inside of me, my ex never would, and now I'm 100% single and want as much of it as possible. oh yes and my nipples make me fucking crazy, touch them, kiss them, suck on them. My tits are still full of milk too, if you're interested. I'm clean, and I can prove it, extremely fertile, my pussy is tight and begging to be pounded, filled with your hot cum. you can fuck me as many times as you like, as long as you cum in my pussy every time. I love having my ass tongue fucked and finger fucked but I haven't fully had a cock in my ass. I'm looking to be owned, completely. My entire body will be yours, unless you want to share me, you decide on who gets to be inside me, I think I made my point. 😘 My body is at its absolutely best while I'm pregnant and I'm crazy horny ALL the time, I'm still young enough to give my master as many babies as he will permit me. 😘😘😘
Female (26) Columbus, Ohio
NotNotANerd
N*********d
Hey all! idk what is up with my BDSM results. im 100% sub looking for a 100% dom! I'm a seperated 38 year old female social worker with an extremely high sex drive. I work nights and am mostly available during the day (can make some exceptions with advanced notice). I'm soft and curvy with a set of perfect tits (ass people may be disappointed). I'm a brat at first but love to be trained to be a perfect submissive cum-dumpster fucktoy. I love to give oral but hate to receive it (hard limit). I am pleasured by pleasing you. I want a selfish lover who wants to use me to make themselves feel good. If you get off to pleasing a woman and making her cum, I'm not for you. I hate cumming (hard limit) as much as I hate having someone go down on me. I love dirty talk during sex. Sex is 90% psychological for me. I'm looking to explore my submissive side and my sexuality in general. I consider myself to be a bicurious pansexual but only want to meet with men at this time. I'm looking for a partner or partners who can help me explore my sexuality. Please don't message me if you can't last long during sex or have a small penis. I'm 420 friendly but otherwise D/D free. I need someone who can dominate me in every way (physical, psychological, emotional). Also interested in exploring age play and other kinds of role play. If you're interested in meeting, please send me a message that describes your domination style and clearly states that you understand that I don't want to cum or be eaten out. If you don't include these elements in your message, I will not respond back. Also, dick pics are helpful! I'll ask for one at some point before considering meeting.
Female (38) Columbus, Ohio
Midwest-hippie
M************e
Hey y’all! Just checking out this lifestyle I have been interested in for a while. **I don’t respond to profiles that don’t have pictures Also, it takes me like 5-7 business years to respond in general 😅😬 I love purple. Also, don’t feel comfortable giving my real location anymore, so y’all will have to guess if you don’t already know it 😉 ***2 s*n*a*p* had to get a new one..
Female (32) Columbus, Ohio
Rosebudd96
R********6
Ex-Convict, Love to be spoiled, Open-minded but still very new to this. Fun and wild as my red hair. kind and soft as my blue eyes.
Female (29) Columbus, Ohio
shroomie_jess
s***********s
Fun outgoing nerdy gamer girl. I promise I'm not an uwu egirl unless I get drunk lol. I'm an introvert that loves outdoor activities and I'm here to push my boundaries and try new things. I'm in an open poly relationship but kinda looking for myself for once...maybe?
Female (25) Columbus, Ohio
Kylee614
K******4
5'8," thicc, and a lot of fun. I think cold pizza is the breakfast of champions. 🍕 ✨Sapiosexual ... dry texting = dry pussy. 🧠😈 *BBC to the front. 😏👀 Tall, dark & handsome. Born in the 1900s, you should be too ... not interested in young 🦌 or the barely legal type. **Stop asking me what my kinks are. I literally took a quiz and the results are right there. Reading is fundamental. 😘
Female (44) Columbus, Ohio
Dominique33
D*********3
new and exploring 🙂 I’m a sadist degrading brat/mistress with *** tendencies. Will switch to sub/little with right partner. All about natural connection nothing ***d. Not really into labels or jumping right into relationships. Just looking to connect and let things evolve organically. I’m into herbalism, wellness, music, travel etc I’ll add more as I go along 💫
Female (41) Columbus, Ohio
christina624
c**********4
Sweet-brat energy. I tease until I’m grounded, then I turn soft, cuddly, and devoted. authority + affection = magic. Not interested in hookups, casual, fwb, poly, enb, or any group activities ❤️
Female (25) Columbus, Ohio

New members in Columbus

sweetdoll-1526
sweetdoll-1526
I'm here for open-minded, no-strings fun with a strong emotional and physical spark. I'm kink-friendly, into exploring desires, and believe great chemistry starts with honesty and mutual respect. Not looking for forever-just deep connections, wild nights, and safe, consensual play. If you're into that, let's talk and see what trouble we can get into
Female (53) Columbus, Ohio
Ellie0-0
Ellie0-0
Hi hi! I'm new to all this so bare with me ^•^. I'm a submissive brat. I love being put in my place and told what to do, ect. CNC is hot and so is manhandling. Into *** and degrading, but also praise. Would love a men or women to take control of my life like, orgasm denial, diet, activities, what I wear, ect. I am a virgin as well so be warned I'm THAT new to all this.
Female (21) Columbus, Ohio
L1ttl3mama
L1ttl3mama
I'm not here for a long time, just a good time. Looking for someone to flirt with and maybe some cyber fun. Not looking for a relationship! Doms please apply, im very submissive.
Female (44) Columbus, Ohio
Goodgirl-2271
Goodgirl-2271
Well, I’m a fun-loving, down-to-earth woman who believes in living life with purpose, passion, and a little bit of laughter every day. I love staying active, whether it’s working out, going for a ride, cooking up something delicious on the grill, or just relaxing outside with my cat
Female (42) Columbus, Ohio
Tracey-5699
Tracey-5699
I am full of energy and love! My dream is to find love! Love does not know ages, right? I am in the perfect age to love and to concentrate on my man. I am experienced enough to make a mane happy. I am calm, wise and balanced. I like harmony in everything. I believe in marriage and I am sure I will be a loyal and loving wife!
Female (43) Columbus, Ohio
Chloe-3548
Chloe-3548
# Hey I'm a serious lady....5’10 Lbs ,age 40 and I'm up at 36pm and i love 92(cm) ice cream from avenue '9'. Can’t respond viewers numbers here, you are brilliant enough. Join ashh # Take a very good look at my picture if you find me interesting and win my heart. I am seeking a honest and caring man in my life. I will make you the happiest on this earthbold text
Female (45) Columbus, Ohio
Misha4269
Misha4269
I’m newly divorced and looking to meet women who want to teach me all the finer points of making women cum and play with me
Female (50) Columbus, Ohio
neversaynever
neversaynever
I'm one of millions of people who are lonely. I do not lose hope to meet a man whom I can take under his arm and feel protection. The ability to protect in a man is the most important thing for me. And for a man I myself will become a reliable rear. I stand on my feet quite confidently. I have a creative fascinating work, which develops and gives a sense of realization. If you, as well as I need not just contact, and closeness with kinship of souls and home comfort, and in the relationship reigns mutual understanding and careful attitude, then make a step towards me and write about your desire.
Female (43) Columbus, Ohio
Barbkink
Barbkink
I'm a total dominant and a sweet mummy, i know how to take good care of my Sub slaves, i need a loyal and honest pet, i have alot to explore with you and i promise it wont be boring.
Female (42) Columbus, Ohio
honey-9715
honey-9715
I’m a sub at heart (although i’m a switch), but you must gain my trust, slowly. after all, isn’t that what BDSM is all about? not looking to jump into anything sexual right off the bat. do not send explicit content unless I ask, and DO NOT push my boundaries. outside of kink, i am a human being first, not a sex object. ❗️NO MAGA❗️ also maybe kinda interested in a 3some?? ((:🙈 if ur DDF.
Female (24) Columbus, Ohio
Prettypuppy69
Prettypuppy69
I'm back!! Hi for everyone who has never chatted with me keep reading. I am looking for a Dom. I'm not going to do something I don't want to do no matter how much you try to tell me to do it. I'm a brat to most but if you treat me right I'll be the easiest and most obedient toy you'll ever play with. Please don't accept the session and expect to put a collar on me or even play with my collar. My collar is for worthy doms only. I truly hope you understand. If you're pushy or demanding you will be treating accordingly.
Female (22) Columbus, Ohio
BabyGamerGirl898
BabyGamerGirl898
Hiya all! Lvl 35. I love video/board/card games, space, dinosaurs, drawing/coloring, cats (really all ***s), building things, watching cartoons (adult and kids), and going on adventures. Recently have gotten into DND and would love to find someone to help me learn! Im happily married. Im poly. Always open to new possibilities. Especially with an abdl Daddy or Mommy. If youd like to know more about me feel free to msg me. Always open to making like minded friends! **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to find an individual that I connect with that is into abdl.
Female (36) Columbus, Ohio
Dominique33
D*********3
new and exploring 🙂 I’m a sadist degrading brat/mistress with *** tendencies. Will switch to sub/little with right partner. All about natural connection nothing ***d. Not really into labels or jumping right into relationships. Just looking to connect and let things evolve organically. I’m into herbalism, wellness, music, travel etc I’ll add more as I go along 💫
Female (41) Columbus, Ohio
kenton88618
k*********8
Taken, happy, and a little adventurous. Open to meeting a woman who enjoys good chemistry, clear communication, and exploring something a bit outside the usual.
Female (34) Columbus, Ohio
BBBearXDrawr
B**********r
I’m looking for intentional vetting to develop into any form of relationship that learns and respects my mind and soul before having full access to my body 💜 Likes: musicals, cartoons, smoking, car rides, drinking,karaoke Dislikes: dishonesty, toxicity, emotional ignorance Personality: sweet, bratty, bougie with a touch of realism, loud, spontaneous
Female (23) Columbus, Ohio
LillianEvermore
L*************e
Well im a sub in BDSM. Im a brat in DD/lg. I have been in both lifestyles for 14 years now. Right now im just looking to get to know someone. Im single and rasing a young man on my own. he is bout to be 14 and he is autistic.
Female (43) Columbus, Ohio
Rosebudd96
R********6
Ex-Convict, Love to be spoiled, Open-minded but still very new to this. Fun and wild as my red hair. kind and soft as my blue eyes.
Female (29) Columbus, Ohio
Katie465
K******5
Some things I'm into are ✨Impact play ✨Being submissive ✨Orgasm Denial (giving and receiving) And with time and exploration hopefully the list will grow. Feel free to message me if anything in here seems interesting to you, l'd love to get to know more likeminded people. Older men are my weakness 🙂‍↕️
Female (24) Columbus, Ohio
Adventurenut
A**********t
Playful and constant sexual appetite looking for new experiences. Currently looking for a female to join my male friend and I in a threesome but open to other suggestions. Tell me what to do...I like it! Manhandle me but also be open to when I wanna jump on top and have my way.
Female (39) Columbus, Ohio
TeeOneTime123
T***********3
I am curious. I’m not exactly sure what I like yet but I know that I’m interested in learning. I lean more towards being a Dom, or I prefer to be in control and based on the things I’ve read, I identify more with it.
Female (28) Columbus, Ohio
littlewhimsy888
l*************8
Hiii mister!!! I am a little AND a slave! :3 Some manner of experimental woodsy transcendentalist, looking for a daddy to own me. All about DDLG, CNC, and TPE. I love high protocol and domestic servitude ❤️ and I love big personalities who live with enthusiasm!!! Gimme dat zest 4 life! I love all things mystical and magical and envelope pushing! I'm very "let me worship at your feet" as well as "can you please tuck me in tonight daddy?" I'm a little ball of energy and I would love to have a man to bother. (I mean... shower with affection) I like feeling small and protected and like a prey ***. I'm @gattina_ on Fetlife if you'd like to see more of me :-)) I'm hsv2 + just so you know
Female (27) Columbus, Ohio
missespuff
m********f
im a princess and want all the princess treatment at all times!
Female (27) Columbus, Ohio
columbus49479
c***********9
spoil me👅 I'm super chill and laid back but I love to laugh! sometimes even when I shouldn't😂 and Im super affectionate, I love ***s, but I’m allergic to cats, I have a little frenchie. I'm Just a Brat/sub who loves attention… you must want me more then I want you, that’s my only rule💋
Female (18) Columbus, Ohio
columbus275382
c************2
I’m a kind hearted submissive looking for a dom daddy. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I love to read books, take walks. ***t, magic the gathering, and I love to watch anime sometimes.
Female (25) Columbus, Ohio

New personal ads in Columbus

luxebabe
Looking for some CNC fun

Would be fun to have a cnc experience ☺️
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 58 years ● 100km around USA Mansfield Center
on_herknees
CNC ideas 💡

In need of ideas for light CNC role play/ scenarios with my DOM

I'm usually creative but I'm hitting a wall on this
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Temecula
RedTeacher
Looking for a couple to play with…

This world is very new for me. I’ve been with several couples, and want more.

I’m also very interested in the dom/sub lifestyle. Teach me.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Warner Robins
bookselS
Hey heyy ;)

Someone to fulfill my kinks and a one or few time thing (nothing serious :P )
Kinky Date ● 18 to 23 years ● 15km around USA Chanhassen
las-vegas625746
Sub looking for female to serve

25 yr old sub looking to serve female long-term
Kinky Date ● 20 to 80 years ● 435km around USA Las Vegas
shy420gurl
Fill me up

Wanna have fun, be filled and hang out
NSA ● 35 to 50 years ● 50km around USA Norfolk
bigdicklover
I'm weird

I like my ear nibbled on and licked
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Alexandria
BabygirlDesdemona
37f Online Only Babygirl for 35+ Daddy

Did you know that by adding one babygirl to your life, you have a 200% chance of more smiles daily?

NOT HERE FOR SEX

37 year old experienced demisexual, demiromantic babygirl seeking online only (forever, no meeting) CGL relationship with someone 35+

No masters or sugars or taskmasters

I’m seeking a caregiver for an online only relationship. This would be a text based relationship composed of texting all day/evening.

I’m hoping to find someone who is comfortable engaging in conversation, asking questions, and actively demonstrating interest and care.

If you don’t care to ask about where I am, what’s going on in my day, etc. you won’t be right for me.
Kinky Date ● 35 to 99 years USA Summit
port-colborne818874
Spicy Snap Content

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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 25km around Canada Port Colborne
petiteblondie344
Services

Looking to fill my pocket for your needs?
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London
shy420gurl
Feeling freaky

Need someone to fill me up. Free today and tomorrow all day
NSA ● 40 to 54 years ● 40km around USA Norfolk
MommyRiyah224
Still Better Than You!

Oh, You’re submissive? You like being degraded? Like having your fetish used against you? No. I’m not talking blackmail. I’m talking blue balling you.

You ever thought about having a dominant black woman call you as punk ass bitch? That’s me. Everyone is underneath me. Including your wife/husband, your mother, your brother/***. You’re just in my world and I enjoy terrorizing you and your bitchass.

If you’re into feet, oral (me receiving), face-sitting, being an atm, or whatever. Hit me up.
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Brooklyn
Hter123
Any ***s

Need a good ***
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Phoenix
Aribeth113
Poly Domme Seeking Connection (Women Only)

Hi there,
I’m a poly, partnered Domme looking to meet someone new for a potential play partner or FWB connection. My partner is aware and supportive of my dating life. What matters most to me is finding someone I genuinely vibe with as a person first, not just someone interested in kink.
I value chemistry, conversation, humor, and comfort outside of scenes just as much as what happens within them. If we can’t laugh, talk, and enjoy each other’s company, the rest doesn’t really work for me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 45 years ● 85km around Netherlands 's-Gravendeel
vidalia85978
Hungry?

Looking for someone in my area to eat my pussy until I scream
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 45 years ● 75km around USA Vidalia
canton127212
Dom,fet,milf addictive

Love to do fet,its my calling lol
Kinky Date ● 29 to 80 years ● 120km around USA Canton
A_Siren
Dyke needing a rough daddy

Looking for men to get me drunk and take my little dyke holes 💦 haven't had a real cock since my cousin got me fucked up & took me... got me wanting to be a man's dyke whore 🥵
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 480km around USA Farmington
bbwtiff1
21F looking for soft dom daddy

Curvy submissive and needy looking for a soft dom to take care of me, check my profile out 💋💋
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Flamingo Lodge
A_Siren
Dyke needing a Daddy..

Little dyke wanting to be a good little whore for a rough older man 🥵 need some cock ***d into my holes.. show me what I'm made for 💦💦
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Farmington
tacoma557684
Let me soak your face

Looking for late night pussy eating with little to no reciprocation. If you’re in Tacoma hit me up
NSA ● 18 to 53 years ● 5km around USA Tacoma
knifemittens
Looking for a femdom

Looking for love
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 30 years ● 100km around Canada Guelph
Kitten00199600
Looking for a Daddy

Searching for confident daddy who enjoys spoiling his girl making her feel special I want someone who can treat me like a princess but also fuck me like a slut I want someone who’s very dominant and likes to take control must be in Denver or close to Denver looking for a fwb type relationship or something more if things and the vibe goes well
BDSM Play Partner ● 31 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Denver
maddyyyyyy03
Pick me up tonight

Lmk how long I can stay at ur place I need to get out asap got kicked out
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Belmont
ashrenee19
Looking for a friend for my man

Looking for a girl to have fun with my man while she I can’t
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Lake Havasu City

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